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Talks & Debate

Jordan Stephens on Love, Chaos and Becoming a Man

Presented by Intelligence Squared
Wed 13 Nov 2024, 19:30
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Reflect with Jordan Stephens on his life experiences and explore how men can develop a healthier view on masculinity.

Jordan Stephens’ life during his teenage years and his twenties was a whirlwind. As one half of the hip hop duo Rizzle Kicks, his days were full of success, fame and adulation as Rizzle Kicks’ debut sold over 1 million singles and 600,000 albums in 2012. But for Jordan, success brought pain in its wake: a hidden pattern of self-harm, hedonism, destructive ideas of masculinity, and heartbreak. Diagnosed twice with ADHD, he was always chasing the elusive feeling of love and continually found himself distracted and derailed by drugs, drink, sex and chaos.

After his world imploded, Jordan chose to step away from his previous life completely and allowed himself to finally explore the pain he’d repressed his entire life. His new memoir Avoidance, Drugs, Heartbreak & Dogs  unsparingly digs into the fear, tenderness and trauma he carried. And it examines the confusing assumptions and contradictions about what a man should be that Jordan – and increasing numbers of young men today – struggle with.

Join us live where in conversation with a special guest to be announced, Jordan will reflect on his own life experiences as he explores how we can encourage men to have a healthier and more loving conception of masculinity. 

Image of the front cover of Jordan Stephens new book 'Avoidance, Drugs, Heartbreak & Dogs'