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Talks & Debate

Jordan Stephens on Love, Chaos and Becoming a Man

Presented by Intelligence Squared
Wed 13 Nov 2024
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Reflect with Jordan Stephens on his life experiences and explore how men can develop a healthier view on masculinity.

Jordan Stephens’ life during his teenage years and his twenties was a whirlwind. As one half of the hip hop duo Rizzle Kicks, his days were full of success, fame and adulation as Rizzle Kicks’ debut sold over 1 million singles and 600,000 albums in 2012. But for Jordan, success brought pain in its wake: a hidden pattern of self-harm, hedonism, destructive ideas of masculinity, and heartbreak. Diagnosed twice with ADHD, he was always chasing the elusive feeling of love and continually found himself distracted and derailed by drugs, drink, sex and chaos.

After his world imploded, Jordan chose to step away from his previous life completely and allowed himself to finally explore the pain he’d repressed his entire life. His new memoir Avoidance, Drugs, Heartbreak & Dogs  unsparingly digs into the fear, tenderness and trauma he carried. And it examines the confusing assumptions and contradictions about what a man should be that Jordan – and increasing numbers of young men today – struggle with.

Join us live where in conversation with writer and award-winning Guardian podcast presenter Chanté Joseph, Jordan will reflect on his own life experiences as he explores how we can encourage men to have a healthier and more loving conception of masculinity. 

 

Image of the front cover of Jordan Stephens new book 'Avoidance, Drugs, Heartbreak & Dogs'
Chantè Joseph looks at the camera wearing a black top and a purple background

Hosted by Chantè Joseph

Writer and award-winning Guardian podcast presenter. With over 160,000 followers across all her social platforms, she has worked with some of the world's biggest brands such as Amazon, Bumble, Unilever and more as a content producer creating engaging and impactful social adverts. A versatile journalist with words in Vice, Vogue, Refinery 29 and more Chante frequently writes for her work ranging from celebrity interviews to cultural commentary and first-person reportage. She has published essays in two anthologies Black Joy and Unattached and is currently writing for her first book A Quick Ting On: The Black British Power Movement, due out in October 2025.